There was no addons button when i loged onto WoW and i tried closing the game and reopening it and i tried restarting the computer and i dont know what else to try and i didnt know if i should contact Blizzard or Curse and since curse is addons i contacted curse first...

Make sure the addons you added are listed in this folder:

\World of Warcraft\Interface\Addons\

I'm running Windows XP and this (for example) is where Curse Profiler is located.

C:\Program Files\World of Warcraft\Interface\AddOns\CurseProfiler

I'm not familiar enough with Windows Vista to give you exact details for those locations

there was no CurseProfiler in my addons folder

Search your hard drive for the World of Warcraft folder. Wherever it is, there should be at least a WTF folder as a subfolder, and if you have addons, there should be an Interface folder, and in that, an AddOns folder. If you don't have the Interface or Addons folder, that's why you don't have the addons button on character select.

The Blizzard addons by themselves do not create the button. You have to put non-Blizzard addons in the folder to see the button. Read the sticky for details.

its all working now thanks for the help

Vista NEW default folder:

C:/Users/Public/Games/World of Warcraft